Match Making For Boomers: Before You Look For Your Mr Right ...

It's been almost a year since your last breakup, and cupid is really pulling at your heart strings. With a new resolve, and feeling like you have a new lease on life, your ready to dive back into the dating world to find your Mr. Right. Whether you are planning to meet your Mr. Right by chance, online, at a social gathering, or through friends; you will need to know what kind of man that you are looking for before you dive back into the dating world.

Despite the fact, that cupid is pulling at your heart strings and your eagerness to find your Mr. Right; there are a few crucial things that you need to do before you begin your search for Mr. Right. To expound, before looking for your " Mr. Right," it is imperative that you writedown your, "must-haves," your "negotiables," and your "deal breakers."

First let's examine your "must-haves." "Must-haves," are the prerequisites that a man must meet before you commit to a relationship with him. While your "must-have" list will vary from that of another woman's "must-have" list; it is important to have your list of "must-haves" written down, as you meet new men to possibly date. As you meet new men, your written list of "must-haves" will essentially serve as a "does-he-even-qualify" list during your "screening" process.

Your "must-have" list might include such things as: be gainfully employed, considerate, generous, loyal, family-oriented, reliable, etc. Put some serious thought into the prerequisites men you date "must-have."

Next, consider your "negotiables." "Negotiables" are those qualities/attributes/things that you are willing to be flexible with, so as to not over look a potentially great man. Your list of "negotiables" might be such things such as height ( many women will only date men over 6 feet- I used to be this way), their occupation ( some women will only date white-collar/professional men), geographical location, dating a man that has children, etc. In short, whatever you decide your "negotiables" are; make a list and write them down.

Last, but definitely not least, it is very important that you know what your "deal breakers" are. "Deal breakers" are those attributes/qualities/behaviors that you will nottolerate from a man, and that automatically disqualify him from being considered as your "Mr. Right." Your "deal-breakers" might be a man that exhibits that he is: dishonest, unreliable, abusive, ( in any form), a commitment-phobic, chronically unemployed and the like.

Again, just as with your "must-haves" and "negotiables", give your "deal breakers" some serious thought by making a list and writing them down. Your "Mr. Right" could show up when you least expect it. Having a written list of your "must-haves," "negotiables," and "deal breakers" will make it much easier to discern if a man that you meet could be your "Mr. Right."

More importantly, having a written list of what you need your "Mr. Right" to have, and sticking to your list, will prevent you from undue heartache and wasting precious time with the wrong man.

K E Robinson is passionate about writing and enjoys sharing her experiences about love and relationships. K E Robinson knows from her own personal experiences that dating and relationships are not easy and invites women who want to deal more effectively with issues concerning commitment, long distance relationships, and why men pull away emotionally by visiting: gethim2commit.com. Their are two very informative videos available to view.

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